Five years ago today I published my first Serenity and Health blog post, “Knots, Threads, and Tangles.” I spoke of the tapestry God weaves with our lives as he creates his beautiful masterpiece and described how we see only the backside of this work of art with its tangle of knots, dangling threads, and mismatched colors that represent our often meandering and convoluted paths.
A lot has happened during these five years. President Trump was first inaugurated two weeks before my blog debuted. We have experienced many divisions and a pandemic. Every one of us has been affected. Though the back of the tapestry now contains knots that are tighter and tangles that are bigger, my hope and faith assure me the tapestry design on the front side remains exquisite.
I want to thank you, my readers, for your participation in Serenity and Health. I’m privileged to partner with you as we work with the colored threads of our day-to-day lives, trying to live faithfully as we seek health, peace, and closeness to God.
A review of the sixty articles I have written in these five years reminds me that some were fun to write and others challenging, but all of them have taught me something. I hope and pray that you, too, have benefited. Let me share a few reactions, both yours and mine.
MY TAKE
My first post, “Knots, Threads, and Tangles” from Feb. 2, 2017, is most memorable. I was scared to death to actually write something and release it to the world. But I was very proud of myself when I finally clicked “send” and was empowered to continue.
“I Wonder,” Jan. 16, 2020, flowed out of me with ease after I visited the National Gallery of Art. Somehow I saw the magnificent art with new eyes. Do you remember the image I included of the marble bust, The Veiled Nun? It is magical. I think my right brain is slowly coming online—for Christmas this year, in response to my gentle hints, I received an electronic piano, a watercolor set, and a charcoal drawing set!
My hardest-to-write blog, and also the most revealing, is “Passing Judgment” from Nov. 20, 2021. I admit it’s long, but my feelings and thoughts about being judgmental just boiled out onto the page. I wrote: “What is going on? All I can think of is a Screwtape-like devil gleefully watching us fight with each other over issues and divisions he has fomented in our world. How successfully he has divided us into conflicting tribes!” The process of developing and writing this blog took me to my knees.
YOUR TAKE
On Day 22 of the pandemic, April 2, 2020, I wrote “Q. and A.” and posed many questions. But I had just one answer, faith in Our Lord. I presented the Suscipe Prayer as a solution for our angst. A number of readers commented, some by email; clearly we were all reeling as the pandemic unfolded before us. The responses revealed that sharing pain and uncertainty in a community (like Serenity and Health) can help us navigate confusing times.
“Big Red Dumpster,” September 21, 2021, provoked the most reaction. I wrote about the problem of dealing with our accumulated “stuff,” especially as we age, and offered specific suggestions. My comments seemed to touch a nerve, which makes me think many of us must have too much stuff!
“Passing Judgement” (mentioned above) deeply affected at least a few of my readers, who shared that they, too, struggle with being loving and respectful of all, especially those with starkly different views. I think they found, as I have, that sharing our struggles can be deeply healing.
Today I offer no suggestions or homework. I’m celebrating this anniversary and you can celebrate with me. Know that I am deeply gratified and honored that you read my words. Your feedback is always appreciated. God bless each and every one of you
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Dr. Donna Chacko promotes health of body, mind, and spirit through her website (serenityandhealth.com), her blog, and programs at her church. She is the author of the award-winning book and Amazon best-seller Pilgrimage: A Doctor’s Healing Journey (Luminare Press, 2021). You can read her full bio here.
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